K! Respect goes both ways. You said something controversial then backtracked and it still doesn’t make sense. Then you talked down to someone. Telling someone to “at least read what you said” is rude.
I think it’s clear that when gays say “girl,” sis,” “bïtch,” we’re not being serious, and isn’t the quite the same as misgendering someone. So for you to “correct” people every single time is a little tiresome.