MiKEY Pronounshe/him The Fame Popster 484 Posted February 2, 2021 Share Posted February 2, 2021 U don’t know what to sa- just kidding I’m real confused so there’s this guy (let’s call him Max). so we started chatting in early 2019 but somehow we lost each other at the end of 2019. yesterday i randomly replied to one of his Snapchat stories and he didn’t remember who I was. He is very kind but still my fears kick in and I don’t know how to react. Today I showed him our last chat from 2019 and he replied: didn’t seem to be that interesting. I was like: ok 🥲 after that I searched his IG and followed him and he followed back but what now? I don’t dare to text him cause maybe he’ll think that I’m a weird stalker or something, if I don’t text he might think that he’s bothering me. So my fears and insecurities are kicking in again. I’m afraid to be not good enough, to be either too intrusive or being kinda disinterested (what I’m not). Also I fear that he’s might “too good looking” for me. Help I’m so confused 1 Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
little legend Pop-a-911-ster 28,580 x3 Posted February 2, 2021 Share Posted February 2, 2021 didn’t seem to be that interesting kinda rude. But the point is that he is not interested, you should respect that and move on. You deserve better either way 1 2 Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
lavenderblondee PronounsShe/her Popster to Popster 3,889 Posted February 2, 2021 Share Posted February 2, 2021 I'm not digging that he said "didn't seem to be been interesting" You deserve better than that. I'd say it's best to move on, he doesn't seem to be worth it and not worth any type of rejection you may feel. 1 1 Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lorde Von Kok PronounsHe/Him Gaming Leader 8,440 Posted February 2, 2021 Share Posted February 2, 2021 Okay baby, let's go back to the start. You shouldn't doubt yourself for no man, ever. You need someone who will treat you right and who will be interested in you. He doesn't seem interested, and that's fine. Too bad for him, and move on. You have other things to do, to create, to love and to grow with. Ain't no time you're gonna waste on doubting yourself, panicking and stuff. Just be yourself, do your thang, be a cute hoe on your IG, and that's it. The ones destined to change you and to be with you will show up at one point, you just have to wait and take care of yourself. 1 1 1 Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
admin Pronounshe/him Kindness Admin 7,417 Posted February 2, 2021 Share Posted February 2, 2021 Honestly, he seems both rude and uninterested in general. I think it's always possible something will click and work out unexpectedly, but I wouldn't really exert to much energy to do so. You've made it clear you have some type of interest by replying to SC, showing your old chats and following him. If there is anything there, he'll make the next move. I second @Lorde Von Kokthat it's not worth wasting your time or pining. Also, you're beautiful and don't ever doubt yourself on that. 1 1 Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kattys Pronounsshe / her The Fame Popster 477 Posted February 2, 2021 Share Posted February 2, 2021 (edited) Nothing such as "too good looking" exists. But for your own peace of mind I would rather forget about the guy, better to move on earlier. Love is like sh*t, if you have to force it it's probably diarrhea. Edited February 2, 2021 by Kattys 1 Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
StormPulse Pronounshe/him Banned 550 Posted February 2, 2021 Share Posted February 2, 2021 2 hours ago, MiKEY said: U don’t know what to sa- just kidding I’m real confused so there’s this guy (let’s call him Max). so we started chatting in early 2019 but somehow we lost each other at the end of 2019. yesterday i randomly replied to one of his Snapchat stories and he didn’t remember who I was. He is very kind but still my fears kick in and I don’t know how to react. Today I showed him our last chat from 2019 and he replied: didn’t seem to be that interesting. I was like: ok 🥲 after that I searched his IG and followed him and he followed back but what now? I don’t dare to text him cause maybe he’ll think that I’m a weird stalker or something, if I don’t text he might think that he’s bothering me. So my fears and insecurities are kicking in again. I’m afraid to be not good enough, to be either too intrusive or being kinda disinterested (what I’m not). Also I fear that he’s might “too good looking” for me. Help I’m so confused Gonna be blunt here: he's not interested. If he was, he would've replied with something like a heart emoji or a "yeah, that was nice." to the Snapchat People follow all sorts of people on Instagram, I've gotten completely random adds, so his following you back is probably just a courtesy, which is what I'd do if someone followed me. I'd let it be 1 1 Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
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